Can I make changes to my child custody or support agreements?
- YES, you usually can make changes to child custody orders.
- YES, you usually can make changes to child support orders.
Specific situations when you can request changes to custody and support orders
Major Life Changes – If you or your ex experience a big shift, like a change in income, a move, or new needs for your child, you can ask for a modification.
Mutual Agreement– Parents can agree together to modify the orders, but court approval is needed to make it official.
Child’s Preference– If your child is old enough, the court may take their opinion into account for custody changes.
Great, tell me how to modify the orders
We can’t give you one clear answer. There’s a catch π The rules and processes vary state-by-state (are you noticing a theme?)
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4 Tips for succeeding in your child custody or support change request
Changing custody or support orders can be challenging, but with the right approach, you can get the updates that work best for your situation. Use these 4 tips to help you succeed π
Get Organized – Have all your documents ready, like income, expenses, and proof of any big changes. This helps build a solid case and will help you feel strong and powerful.
Stay Respectful -We know these are some of the hardest situations you’ll ever be in. As much as you can, keep interactions with the other parent polite and focused on your child. Even when things are tense. Calm and measured approaches always work better in getting what you want.
Consider Choosing Mediation -Mediation is when you and your ex work with a neutral 3rd party to solve problems. In this situation, mediation can be a simpler, more affordable way to agree on changes without going to court.
Work With A Lawyer – As with most things divorce, an experienced family lawyer can help you navigate the process and represent you in court if needed.
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