Does divorce need to be someone’s fault?
Let’s clear up the confusion.
There’s this old idea that to get divorced, you need to prove your spouse did something wrong. Like pointing fingers and saying, “See, it’s their fault. I deserve better.”
Guess what? Not true!
No one needs to be at fault. You don’t need a reason to end your marriage. Every state allows no-fault divorce.
No-Fault vs. Fault Divorce: What’s the Difference?
Think of No-Fault Divorce like this – “I’m divorcing because I don’t want to be married anymore.” The end.
No explanation, no justification, no convincing anyone. Think of it like ending a contract with a plumber – when you’re done, you’re done.
Other phrases for it: “irretrievable breakdown,” “irreconcilable differences,” or “irreparable breakdown of the marriage.”
Think of Fault Divorce like this – “I’m divorcing because my spouse did something wrong.”
Common reasons: adultery, domestic violence, abandonment, or incurable insanity.
Why does it matter?
Fault divorce often requires more time, money, and emotional energy than no-fault divorces.
- You must prove your spouse did something wrong (abuse, cheating) or didn’t (abandonment)
- You need to convince a court that your spouse’s actions caused the marriage breakdown.
No-fault divorce maximizes your autonomy and liberty.
- You’re divorcing because you don’t want to be married anymore. Full stop.
- You don’t need to prove anything. Your reasons are your own, no explanations needed.
- It’s always going to be cheaper!
Next step: Empower yourself with knowledge
Every state in the U.S. allows no-fault divorce, but the rules differ.
Know the laws in your state before starting the process.
- Wondering who knows these laws? Lawyers, mediators, and other legal professionals do!
Schedule a consultation with your lawyer to get all your questions answered. Pro-Tip – Read our article so you’re ready to crush it!
Deciding your divorce route is a crucial first step. Even if you didn’t initiate it, understanding the differences and the roadmap ahead is empowering.
Stay connected with us for nonstop info and support—we’re with you every step of the way.
