Divorce is tough enough—navigating the legal side doesn’t have to be. We’ve got you covered with a clear, simple guide to help you feel strong, empowered, and confident as you take your next step.
Do I need a lawyer?
Great question! And many people ask, especially when they have a good relationship with their ex and/or have a small estate (assets, debts, obligations.)
The answer is it depends. Most of the time you can go through a divorce without a lawyer, but it’s not always simple or best.
Why? → In some cases, divorce can be straightforward, especially if you don’t have kids or many shared assets. In others, you and your spouse may be miles apart or may disagree on all of the issues at stake. And no matter what, there’s always paperwork, rules, and a lot of emotions involved. Lawyers can help you navigate the process and protect your finances and family for the long term
Still not convinced?
Here’s the good news: there are more ways than ever to tackle your divorce! From online platforms that walk you through each step to skilled pros like coaches, doulas, and mediators ready to help. And if you’re feeling up for it, you can even go the DIY route and represent yourself, a.k.a. “pro se.”
What about the cost?
The average cost of divorce is $15,000- $20,000, with the median being $7,000.
Contested divorces—the kind with big disagreements over things like property or child custody—can get seriously expensive, often over $100,000. The key factor that drives up the cost? → Whether you and your ex can agree on terms. The more you disagree, the more your divorce will cost, mainly due to higher legal fees for handling tough, time-consuming issues.
How do lawyers charge?
HOURLY RATE: Lawyers often charge an hourly rate, and bill you in six-minute increments. How are rates calculated? → Based on factors like the lawyer’s experience, role in the firm (partner or associate), reputation, years in practice, specialties, and other credentials. Location matters too. Lawyers usually charge more in big cities or coastal cities, than in rural or inland areas.
ALTERNATIVES: Some lawyers charge a flat fee instead of an hourly rate, especially for straightforward cases like uncontested divorces. This fixed rate, often paid upfront, gives you a clear idea of the cost from the start.
Some lawyers offer different billing options, called alternative fee arrangements (AFAs), and many are willing to work out payment plans, IE, Installments, fixed monthly payments, and credit card payments. Others offer “hybrid” options like hourly rates with caps or floors.
✨ PRO TIP ✨ Whatever your fee arrangement, make sure it is clearly laid out in a written agreement, so you know exactly what you’re paying for.
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