Breaking Up Is Hard. Finding Your Divorce Lawyer Shouldn’t Be.
We’re here to help.
This article shares 7 essential tips for picking the perfect divorce lawyer. Whether you’re just starting or feeling overwhelmed, our tips will guide you to the best choice for YOU.
CHOOSE your divorce process
Divorce your way – court or no court? Consider mediation or collaborative attorneys for a split that is usually more peaceful, less expensive, and less public.
Explore our resources to understand your options, then find the right lawyer for YOU.
SOURCE recommendations
Start your search by asking trusted sources for recs → family, friends, and colleagues.
People with firsthand experience can speak to the lawyer’s skills, professionalism, communication style, pricing, etc. Whatever matters to you.
*If you want to keep it more hush-hush, skip and proceed to #3
RESEARCH!
Find compassionate, experienced, licensed divorce professionals in our directory.
Find others through word-of-mouth. Check out their websites, and read reviews on Google, Yelp, Martindale, and Avvo. Confirm they’re licensed and in good standing.
*PRO-TIP * Search for lawyers through the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML = a national, non-profit organization committed to promoting excellence among family law attorneys)
PLAN details + budget
First and foremost – decide what you need for yourself and your family.
Secondly, choose a lawyer experienced in your specific needs:
- Need help with custody or child support? Find an expert in family law.
- Have complex assets? Look for someone with a strong financial background.
Plan your budget realistically. Communicate it clearly to your lawyer and ask for a breakdown of charges and services. You are in charge – ask for what you need.
CRUSH the consultation
Make the most of your consultation:
- Come prepared with questions and take notes.
- Bring a friend for support or to help remember key points.
*PRO-TIP * Explore our resource library and engage with our videos, articles, and content to confidently prepare for your lawyer consultation.
TRUST your instincts
Choosing your lawyer is about building a connection. Ask yourself: Do I like them? Do I trust them? Do we connect?
Lawyers differ in experience, strategies, personalities, and pricing. Find the one who fits YOU best—they’ll guide you through complex and emotional times.
FIND support
You don’t have to do this alone. Seek support from family, friends, online communities, therapists, coaches—and us.
We’re here for you every step of the way, no matter what.
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